Anatomy of a Relationship in 5 Latin Dances

The five dances of International Latin rounds tell a powerful story of relationships (this is, of course, written from the girl's point of view).



1. Cha Cha Cha ~ We meet at a party. We flirt. You get my number, but I'm not sure I'll answer when you call me. In fact, the first time you call, I don't. Then I change my mind and call you back. Then we play telephone tag while I make up my mind.



2. Samba ~ We decided to go on a date. It was really good. The chemistry was really really good. We have a great time together.



3. Rumba ~ I love you, but I'm not so sure this relationship is a good idea. I really really want you, but I'm torn. I want to be close to you, but I can't seem to bring myself to commit.



4. Paso Doble ~ I was right. The relationship wasn't a good idea. Now if only I could sort out these mixed feelings. Love and hate really are two sides of the same coin.



5. Jive ~ Okay, well, it wasn't all bad. Let's be friends and pretend we're totally over this whole thing by being a little TOO happy around each other.



(Excerpted from a conversation with my partner sometime last April).